Everyone seems so grown up at my age.  I know it's expected, but everyone just seems to be so mature.  Three guys I know just got enganed within one month.   The guy sitting behind me was drawing a greeting card for whom I found out was his kids.  I feel like I'm barely handling life.  I need to be more organized.  I need to grow up?  Or should I?  Should I just grow up because other people are?  Is life about how much money you can make, and accomplish, how much fun you've had, God?